Hari ibyo abashakanye batagombye gutinyuka mu mibonano yabo?



Ikibazo: Hari ibyo abashakanye batagombye gutinyuka mu mibonano yabo?

Igisubizo:
Bibiliya idusaba ngo �kurongorana kubahwe na bose, kandi kuryamana kw'abarongoranye kwe kugira ikikwanduza, kuko abahehesi n'abasambanyi Imana izabacira ho iteka� (Abaheburayo 13:4). Ntabwo Bibiliya ivuga ibyo abashakanye bemerewe cyangwa batemerewe gukorana mu mibonano yabo. Abashakanye ariko babwirwa �ntimukimane keretse ahari musezeranye igihe� (1 Abakorinto 7:5). Iki cyanditswe wenda cyafatirwaho ku birebana n�imibonano y�abashakanye. Ni ukuvuga yuko ibyakorwa byose mu mibonano bigomba kuba byumvikanyweho. Ntawe ukwiye guhatwa gukora icyo atabohokeye cyangwa yumva bidahwitse. Niba umugabo n�umugore (bashakanye) bemeranyije kugerageza ubundi buryo bw�imibonano yabo, nta kintu twabona muri Bibiliya cyabibabuza.

Hari ibintu ariko bizira mu mibonano y�abashakanye. Nka bimwe byadutse byo �guhinduranya� cyangwa �kongeramo uwa gatatu mu gitanda� byo ni ubusambanyi nk�ubundi bwose (Abagalatiya 5:19, Abefeso 5:3, Abanyakolosi 3:5, 1 Abatesalonika 4:3). Gusambana ni icyaha, yewe, n�iyo rwose uwo mwashakanye abizi, yabikwemereye, cyangwa nawe yabigizemo uruhare. Ikindi ni za filimi z�urukozasoni (pornographie), kuko burya zuzuye �irari ry'umubiri n'irari ry'amaso� (1 Yohana 2:16), nuko rero zikaba zidahesha Imana icyubahiro.

Uretse ibyo bintu uko ari bibiri, nta kintu Bibiliya ibuza abashakanye kugerageza mu mibonano yabo, bapfa kuba babyumvikanyeho.



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Hari ibyo abashakanye batagombye gutinyuka mu mibonano yabo?