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Mene ne Littafi Mai Tsarki ke faɗi game da yin soyayya/neman aure?
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Kodayake kalmomin “zawarci” da “yin soyayya” ba su cikin Littafi Mai Tsarki, an ba mu wasu ƙa’idodi da ya kamata Kiristoci su bi a lokacin aure. Na farko shi ne cewa dole ne mu rabu da ra'ayin duniya game da saduwa saboda hanyar Allah ta saɓa da ta duniya (2 Bitrus 2:20). Duk da yake ra’ayin duniya na iya kasancewa a yau kamar yadda muke so, muhimmin abu shi ne gano halayen mutum kafin a ɗaura masa alkawari. Ya kamata mu bincika ko an sake haihuwar mutumin cikin Ruhun Kristi (Yahaya 3:3-8) kuma idan shi ko ita suna da irin wannan sha'awar game da kamanin Kristi (Filibbiyawa 2:5). Babban burin saduwa ko neman aure shine samun abokin rayuwa. Littafi Mai-Tsarki ya gaya mana cewa, a matsayin mu na Krista, bai kamata mu auri mara imani ba (2 Korantiyawa 6:14-15) domin wannan zai raunana dangantakar mu da Kristi kuma zai lalata ɗabi'un mu da mizanan mu.
Lokacin da mutum yake cikin ƙawancen sadaukarwa, ko yin soyayya ko neman aure, yana da mahimmanci a tuna a ƙaunaci Ubangiji sama da komai (Matiyu 10:37). Fada ko gaskata cewa wani mutum shine “komai” ko mafi mahimmanci a rayuwar mutum shine bautar gumaka, wanda shine zunubi (Galatiyawa 5:20; Kolosiyawa 3:5). Hakanan, kada mu ƙazantar da jikinmu ta hanyar yin jima'i kafin aure (1 Korantiyawa 6:9, 13; 2 Timothawus 2:22). Lalatar jima'i zunubi ne kawai ba ga Allah ba amma ga jikunanmu (1 Korantiyawa 6:18). Yana da mahimmanci mu ƙaunaci wasu kuma mu girmama su kamar yadda muke son kanmu (Romawa 12:9-10), kuma wannan gaskiya ne game da neman aure ko dangantakar soyayya. Ko saduwa ko neman aure, bin waɗannan ƙa'idodin Littafi Mai-Tsarki ita ce hanya mafi kyau don samun tushe mai ƙarfi don aure. Yana daga cikin mahimman shawarwari da zamu taɓa yankewa, domin lokacin da mutane biyu suka yi aure, suna manne da juna kuma sun zama nama ɗaya a cikin dangantakar da Allah ya nufa ta kasance mai ɗorewa da rashin yankewa (Farawa 2:24; Matiyu 19:5) .
English
Mene ne Littafi Mai Tsarki ke faɗi game da yin soyayya/neman aure?